I am 40 years old this year but I have never had a girlfriend. I married a dishwasher who has a 3 year old son. On the wedding day, the worst thing happened.

Fearing that no one would marry me, my mother forced me to marry a dishwasher with a three-year-old daughter. On the wedding day, when I picked up the bride, my mother suddenly fell to the ground — and I was stunned to see who would come out…

For ten years, my mother had had one fear:

“You’re forty years old, Miguel. If you don’t get married now, you might grow old alone!”

In our small barangay outside Manila, I was known as Miguel, a plumber and electrician — dark, quiet, and not very handsome.

Whenever marriage was discussed, the neighbors would say:

“Oh, it’s hard to find a wife.”

I was used to being alone, until one day, my mother said:

“There’s a woman on the corner, Maria. She’s kind, quiet, hardworking. She has a three-year-old son, but he’s a good child. Marry him, my child. Don’t choose.”

I just kept quiet.

I didn’t love her, but I felt sorry for my old mother.

It was just the two of us at home.

So I agreed. If not for myself, then for my mother.

The wedding preparations were simple. My mother was very happy, even boasting to the neighbors:

“My future daughter-in-law is poor, but she’s respectful and hardworking.”

The wedding day arrived.

The sun was scorching hot, like it was burning my skin. I was only wearing a rented coat, my hand holding the bouquet was still shaking. The convoy stopped in front of an old house in Quezon City.

Mom asked:

“Why don’t I see her three-year-old son? She always carries him with her wherever she washes dishes.”

I also said that maybe the woman’s family hid it so that people wouldn’t talk about it. Mom nodded, obviously relieved.

I was standing outside, my chest heavy. I had no idea where this wedding was going to end. When the wedding music started playing and the bride came down the stairs, there was a loud “thud” behind me — mom fell!

Everyone was in a panic. I approached her, but I saw her staring, her mouth open, her hand shaking, pointing forward.

When I turned around, I stopped — my body felt stiff, cold sweat.

The woman in front of me was no longer the simple dishwasher I knew at the cafeteria.

She was no longer wearing old clothes and slippers. Instead, she was wearing a white wedding gown, and her neck, hands, and hair were full of gold jewelry — sparkling in the sun.

Our relatives whispered:

“Wow, just a dishwasher but she looks rich?”

Even the girl’s family was surprised:

“Maybe the guy’s family is rich, it’s just not obvious!”

Then, the bride’s parents came out — wearing barongs and elegant clothes, calm demeanor, smiling affectionately:

“Good morning, my friends. Today we give our youngest child to you.”

Mom smiled, but suddenly a three-year-old boy ran up and hugged the bride’s gown, crying:

“Sister, take me with you!”

Everyone was shocked. Everyone thought it was the girl’s son. But the bride’s mother smiled and explained:

“He’s my son too. He’s our youngest. He’s close to his sister, so wherever we go, he wants to go with us. Last summer, he went with his sister to help wash dishes at our cousin’s cafe.”

Everyone laughed — it turned out we were just wrong.

The wedding went off in a happy way. It was full of laughter and joy.

I thought I was getting married just to make my mom happy, but in the end, I got a wife who was kind, beautiful, and had a heart of gold.

So everyone, don’t be afraid if you’re late to get married.

Sometimes, the right person comes along — even if you’re in your forties.

Like me, Miguel, from a quiet barangay in the Philippines

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